Turning Life Experiences Into Life Skills

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Nowadays everyone is talking about mental health. As we know depression and anxiety is growing up. Humans are taking their lives for granted. Many people are writing about what depression looks and feels like.           It is obvious that when we hear or read about a thing we think again again about that even if we don't want to. We start comparing ourselves with the opinions of others. We come to the conclusion that signs like not having friends, laughing all the times and disturbed sleeping patterns etc show that there is something wrong. Even I was very disturbed for many days. It's funny that I had started reading the symptoms and searching for those within myself that's why I thought maybe the experience I had in these few days can help someone. I'm not a mental health specialist. I just want to share my opinion.           Some people say if a person has friends or someone to share things with, he never feels alone. It might be true...

Hey it' me, a human being. Let me show you the inner side of me. My thoughts sometimes not even let me sleep. Today I decided to bring them out.            I say I'll do something big, the world says you look sick. I dream big and people laugh at me. When I try to fly, they cut my wings. When I try to stand up, they push me down. When I run they put obstacles in my way.            And the reasons I can see are  only two. First one is that this world is full of hatred. No hater can see my success. This is a lame reason for me to stop myself. Hater is gonna hate no matter what I do.         Second reason I see are my loved ones. I don't know what they want. They say they love me that's why they stop me because they cannot see me in pain. According to them when I fell down it will hurt me and i won't be able to stand up again.          But these reasons look unsatisfactory to m...

Today I woke up at 8:00 am. A peaceful sound was touching my ears. It was the sound of rain. It was a glorious feeling. So I decided to write something on rain today.        Rain is a beautiful blessing. Many people have a strong emotional connection with it. some get very excited and happy when they see the first drop of it and some go to their rooms and lock themselves because think it brings sadness.        Well, we all shold enjoy it. There is nothing to get depressed when it rains. If we get a sniff of it's smell, it spreads happiness. If you really want to enjoy it, you just need to close your eyes and try to listen to it , it's sound will make you calm. It will bring your peace mind even if you are not feeling well.         Not only humans become loosey-goosey when it rains, the plants also start singing songs and blowing. It gives bath to every single plant. When you look at the drops of rain falling on the ...

You must be wandering that what do I mean by beautiful relation ?     This relationship can have a huge impact on one’s life and even determine whether or not a person develops into a strong and confident human. I’m talking   about the relation between a child   and father.                          Dads are awesome, father child relationship is wonderful. This relationship is pure. There is no selfishness or greed in putting love into this relationship. We can do anything just to bring a smile on his face either we believe it or not. His happiness  means the world to us and this is reality.   Many times we fed up of the care and possesiveness they show to us. The way  they express their love is very different sometimes but we need to understand that whatever they do for us is to protect us.                        Our...

Sometimes all you want is your own company. It happens mostly when you feel down, you feel like nothing is working good. When you don't want to talk to anyone. You hate every person around you. You want to escape and never come back. That is the time you need to spend some with your own self. That's the time you need to feel your presence.            Go to your favorite place. Sit there fora  few minutes at least and think about the best part of life. Close your eyes and remind yourself the best moments you had. Feel grateful for whatever you have even if all you have are your parents, remind yourself their love and care for you.             It will bring a strange smile on your face. Believe me that one smile can change your life. It can bring you back to life. It gives you the courage to stay happy. This one smile will give you thousand of reasons to live for. It will change...

        There are many things that I want to remove from my life and others' lives but most important among them is jealousy. Jealo usy is a bitter attitude among different people. Many people experience it every day, but many stop to actually analyze it and consider the effects of it on their outlooks on life.          I want to remove the feeling of jealousy because most commonly it has negative effects. This can be detrimental in many ways. Jealousy can hurt one if it is taken too seriously. Jealousy can even break a person down. It can even cause negative results such as making a person hurt someone else. It can be potentially favourable sometimes as in some cases it can cause one to strive for better. So it can   be a positive emotion sometimes. But mostly it can be dangerous that is the reason that it should be removed.         Jealousy is considered an advanced emotion, it consist of three basic emotions....